up148 wrote:Rufus T. Firefly wrote:Funny how one generation loves to criticize the appearance of another one - been going on forever.
Funnier still how a now "elder" generation forgets that they were once the younger generation and how in their day their elders held their appearance in poor regard.
The cycle just keeps turning round & round.
Yeah, I referenced that in my post using my parents as an example, but honestly, they were more tolerant than I am. But, they were dealing with new music, haircuts and dress. Today it goes so far beyond that, but I supposed the fact we are so much better connected to the world has something to do with it.
But, it is funny and I think about it often when I try to keep my mouth shut.
But, I too, would just rather not see it. I don't need to be that "well" connected.
BH
That's very interesting to read, BH, because my reaction is totally the opposite. In fact, I rejoice, quietly inside myself, when I see young people , or any age for that matter, expressing themselves with new and unique hairstyles and/or dress. I applaud their self-expression and self-liberating adventures with personal appearance. Isn't that how - or part of how - a society progresses and enjoys new?
An example would be when, a couple Sundays ago, an Altar Boy appeared in the Sacristy, getting ready for the noon Mass, with a new hair-do. He had apparently been influenced by a member, Jack Avery, of the group , "Why Don't We." (Even their name was unique, to me.) He came into the room with his head held downward, unusual for him. So, I complimented him on his hair. He smiled broadly, and from that moment, was holding his head tall and straight forward.
And speaking of older styles not necessarily being "sacrosanct," in my mind, I still can't figure out why wearing ties has held on for so many
centuries (since Beau Brummel?) For a short while, we had a reprieve and experimented with "Nehru" Jackets) and tieless, collarless (slightly revived recently) approaches, but folks soon chickened-out and went back to wearing ties.

Ugh.